have you ever thought about adopting? me neither...until i did.

if you have ever met me, talked with me, or seen a picture of my family, you know that adoption is something that i am more than passionate about. through adoption, matt and i began our family. from something so painful as infertility, came the most beautiful girl. now, having sophie home with us (as was ordained by god before time began...but that's another blog post for another day) i feel motivated, obligated even, to share bits of my experience and general information about adoption itself.

you see, if it had not been for a friend who showed me that even though adopting a child is scary and hard and expensive, it's NOT IMPOSSIBLE. and more importantly, if you feel god calling you to do it, he will make a way. no matter what.

below you can find a few interesting facts about adoption...they are from www.davethomasfoundation.org/Adoption-Facts/Foster-Care-Facts

for information about sophie's adoption and the challenges we faced, check out the links on the right...

more than anything, i hope you consider how you can support adoption today!

On any given day in North America, more than 500,000 children are in the foster care system, and nearly 145,000 of them are available for adoption, just waiting for the right family to find them.

• There are 423,773 children in the U.S. foster care system; 114,556 of these children are available for adoption. Their birth parent's legal rights have been permanently terminated and children are left without a family.

• More children become available for adoption each year than are adopted. In 2009, 69,947 children had parental rights terminated by the courts, yet only 57,466 were adopted.

• Children often wait three years or more to be adopted, move three or more times in foster care and often are separated from siblings. The average age of waiting children is 8 years old.

• Last year, 29,471 children turned 18 and left the foster care system without an adoptive family.

• Adopting from foster care is affordable. Most child welfare agencies cover the costs of home studies and court fees, and provide post-adoption subsidies. Thousands of employers offer financial reimbursement and paid leave for employees who adopt and Federal and/or state adoption tax credits are available to most families.

• Every child is adoptable. Many children in foster care have special needs. All of them deserve the chance to grow up in a safe, loving, permanent home. Support and other post-adoption resources are available.

• Adopting from foster care is permanent. Once a child is adopted out of foster care, the birth parents cannot attempt to claim them or fight in court for their return. A family formed through foster care adoption is forever.

• According to a National Adoption Attitudes Survey commissioned by the Dave Thomas Foundation for Adoption, 63 percent of Americans hold a favorable view of adoption and 78 percent think more should be done to encourage adoption.

• Nearly 40 percent of American adults, or 81.5 million people, have considered adopting a child, according to the National Adoption Attitudes Survey. If just one in 500 of these adults adopted, every waiting child in foster care would have a permanent family.

NOTE: Statistical source is Adoption and Foster Care Analysis and Reporting System; Department of Health & Human Services (October 2009), unless otherwise stipulated.